How Do You Heal If You Do Not Know What You're Healing From?
Clarity is the first step to lasting healing. Your recovery begins with truth, guidance, and practical results.
What Science Shows
- 93% of betrayed partners and 96% of those sharing disclosure found the process essential to their healing (NIH, meta-analyses)
- Couples using a structured, research-backed method see relationship stability jump nearly 50% in one year
- Recovery plans lower trauma symptoms by up to 60% in the first three months
What Is a Full Therapeutic Disclosure?
It is the foundation for true, trauma-informed healing.
A guided, structured sharing of all relevant truths, sharing of the development of the secret sexual basement, prioritizing the betrayed partner’s safety, boundaries, and readiness.
Culturally and religiously sensitive, with each family system met where they are.
Not simply honesty or learning out from trickle truth shares, but real transparency, so no one’s left guessing or doubting reality.
Founded on advanced expertise, clinical insight, trauma-informed practices, partner-sensitive somatic safety, and couples-centered care.
A guided, structured sharing of all relevant truths, sharing of the development of the secret sexual basement, prioritizing the betrayed partner’s safety, boundaries, and readiness.
Culturally and religiously sensitive, with each family system met where they are.
Not simply honesty or learning out from trickle truth shares, but real transparency, so no one’s left guessing or doubting reality.
Founded on advanced expertise, clinical insight, trauma-informed practices, partner-sensitive somatic safety, and couples-centered care.
Our Specialized Approach to Full Therapeutic Disclosure
Healing-centered focused on truth and clarity, not checklist-centered.
- Trauma-informed, partner-focused care, never scapegoating or pathologizing.
- Both partners receive gentle, clear guidance at every stage: prep, disclosure, and aftercare.
- Emotional, somatic, and spiritual safety are core, honoring each couple’s culture and faith.
- We emphasize integrity and showing up, helping clients do the next right thing even when it’s difficult.
- Our approach is about true remorse for trauma/harm caused, not just remorseful for the consequences, and always about lasting repair
Traning & Experience
The Triadic Core Defined
The triadic core includes sexuality and sexual self, gender and gender esteem, and biology and physical body—overlapping and central to your identity and self-nourishment. Wounds here run deep, often lifelong, and are sensitive to shame and stigma that may be weaponized by social forces.Deceptive Sexuality Trauma (DST) uniquely traumatizes this core, shattering foundational identity layers and disrupting attachment, causing complex psychological impact and shaping your experience in profound ways.
Complex PTSD: The Invisible Weight
Your experience often surpasses typical PTSD. Ongoing betrayal triggers complex PTSD, marked by emotional dysregulation, hypervigilance, dissociation, and fractured trust. Your nervous system stays locked in survival mode—both numb and hyper-alert—making daily life tenuous. This is not weakness but your body’s effort to shield you from unbearable pain.
Grief That No One Sees
Your grief is multilayered:
Mourning the loss of your old life
the illusions of safety, honesty, and love you once believed in.
Grieving lost potential futures
the life and family you once imagined but now seem impossible.
Feeling the loss of community
friends and family who may drift away, unable to understand your changed reality.
Mourning the loss of identity
the person you thought you were, fractured beneath the weight of betrayal.
This ambiguous, layered grief can feel relentless and incomprehensible, resisting closure because the betrayal remains ongoing or obscured. It deserves compassion, recognition, and sacred space for healing.
Mourning the loss of your old life
the illusions of safety, honesty, and love you once believed in.
Grieving lost potential futures
the life and family you once imagined but now seem impossible.
Feeling the loss of community
friends and family who may drift away, unable to understand your changed reality.
Mourning the loss of identity
the person you thought you were, fractured beneath the weight of betrayal.
This ambiguous, layered grief can feel relentless and incomprehensible, resisting closure because the betrayal remains ongoing or obscured. It deserves compassion, recognition, and sacred space for healing.
When Healing Feels Impossible, We’re Here
Restoring hope and rebuilding safety—especially when others couldn’t help, and when you’ve had treatment-induced trauma, we get it, and we are here for you.
Many couples even come to us when hope feels lost or when couples feel stuck in the beginning or even in later stages, especially after failed polygraphs or re-traumatizing, botched disclosures.
If a first disclosure, polygraph, or process was mishandled, or if treatment-induced trauma made healing harder, our team steps in with sensitivity and competence.
We’re experts at skilled second disclosures, maintenance polygraph prep, and all stages of trauma-informed restoration—when others don’t know where to start.
It is never too late for clarity, safety, and real relationship renewal.
Many couples even come to us when hope feels lost or when couples feel stuck in the beginning or even in later stages, especially after failed polygraphs or re-traumatizing, botched disclosures.
If a first disclosure, polygraph, or process was mishandled, or if treatment-induced trauma made healing harder, our team steps in with sensitivity and competence.
We’re experts at skilled second disclosures, maintenance polygraph prep, and all stages of trauma-informed restoration—when others don’t know where to start.
It is never too late for clarity, safety, and real relationship renewal.
- Thorough prep, self-reflection and care for both partners: checklists, emotional readiness, and safety agreements to ensure ongoing integrity abuse and sobriety are also addressed.
- Fluent, stepwise care in both English and Spanish—every stage includes bilingual therapists and culturally relevant support
- Diverse, faith-informed approach to match your needs and values.
- Aftercare: follow-ups, group referrals, and ongoing clinical guidance for both partners
How We Offer Disclosure
Trauma-informed, Partners-sensitive Structure. Safety. Support—step by step.
- Converus EyeDetect lie detector screenings
- Referrals for trauma-informed polygraphs with reputable professionals, local or remote, as needed.
- All documentation, care, sessions, and support available in Spanish (for both betrayers and partners)—con apoyo completo en español
- Unwavering sensitivity to every family’s cultural norms, values, and religious beliefs.
What Else We Offer
Comprehensive, innovative tools for your peace of mind.
We build bridges to truth and connection—one step at a time, in English or Spanish.
Compassionate Support for Repair and Reconnection
We provide trauma-informed relationship care that integrates accountability, amends, and guided healing. Through supported impact letters, a structured amends process, and collaborative boundary work, we help couples move toward clarity, dignity, and lasting repair—at a pace that honors safety for both partners.
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