The Relational Resource [TRR]
If you are feeling overwhelmed by the pain of trauma, integrity abuse, betrayal trauma, infidelity, sex addiction, and separation, our services are focused on bringing clarity, healing, growth, and guidance.
Michellene Burke
CPC, HCDC, PPNE, DSTP, AASECT
Associate Member, American Bar Association
Michellene Burke is a betrayal trauma specialist, counselor, and family court strategist, guiding individuals through the complexities of betrayal trauma, high-conflict relationships, and post-separation abuse. With over eight years of professional experience, Michellene brings a deep understanding of the impact of relational trauma, helping clients recover and rebuild their lives with strength and resilience. Her practice integrates trauma-informed care, co-parenting strategies, mediation, and non-violent communication to empower individuals navigating personal challenges and legal complexities.
Michellene holds certifications, continued education, and training in:
• Deceptive Sexuality and Trauma Treatment (DSTT) with Dr. Omar Minwalla and Trish Haight
• Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Clinician Program with Dr. Ramani Durvasula
• AASECT (American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists)
• NICABM Trauma-Informed Training and Education
• Gaslighting Awareness and Recovery (Certified Deconstructing Gaslighting Specialist - C-DGS)
• Court-Appointed Mediator (Juvenile & Domestic Relations, Circuit Family, and Domestic Violence)
• American Bar Association (Associate Member), specializing in Family Law
• PACT Institute and APSATS Models for trauma and relationship healing
Her professional credentials include Certified Professional Coach and Divorce Coach, with certifications through the High Conflict Divorce Coach Certification Program and One Mom’s Battle. Michellene is also a Narcissistic Abuse Treatment Recovery Clinician and Domestic Violence Advocate. As an Associate Member of the American Bar Association’s Family Law Section, she focuses on high-conflict divorce, collaborative divorce, and recovery from coercive control and post-separation abuse.
Michellene’s educational background in Global Leadership and Women’s and Gender Studies from the University of Oklahoma, with further graduate education in clinical mental health counseling and training in Prenatal and Perinatal Psychology and Health (PPNE), gives her the unique ability to address a wide range of challenges, from birth trauma to betrayal trauma recovery.
Michellene understands that life often brings us into situations we never would have chosen. Her mission is to walk alongside her clients as they regain their strength, find clarity, and forge their path to healing, peace, and understanding. No matter where clients are in their journey, Michellene provides trauma-informed, partner-centered guidance that equips them with the education, skills, and confidence to reclaim their lives.
At The Relational Resource, Michellene also leads a team supporting individuals facing high-conflict relationships, post-separation abuse, and coercive control. Her approach focuses on empowering clients to not only survive but thrive, helping them rediscover their inner courage, rebuild healthy relationships, and reclaim their sense of self.
Collectively, our staff has received training, credentials, and/or certification in EMDR, Pia Mellody's Model of Codependency, The Minwalla Model, somatic, training, Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT), AASECT, APSATS, IMAGO Therapy, and the Trauma Resiliency Model (TRM).
We often say that the pain from betrayal trauma doesn't go away even if the relationship ends. We understand firsthand that oftentimes we are thrown into situations we would never have chosen for ourselves. We hope that our training and experiences can now serve as a resource for others living with this trauma. We truly believe that relationships can heal and continue on a path of peace and understanding.